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From a young age, many men are taught explicitly or implicitly that real strength means keeping emotions in check or pushing through without asking for help. These beliefs can make it harder to name what you’re feeling or know when to reach out. That silence can lead to deep, long-lasting pain and a range of challenges, including avoidance behaviors, isolation, strained relationships, unregulated anger, or risky choices that impact personal or family well-being.
Only a little over 40% of men with mental health conditions received mental health treatment in 2022.¹
At Northeast Health Services, we support men and their mental health in all its forms. We provide affirming, personalized care for anyone who identifies as male, including those in gender-diverse or LGBTQIA+ communities, because mental health in men matters, and reaching out is a sign of courage, not weakness.
Understanding what gets in the way of men’s mental health
Many people who identify as men live with anxiety, depression, or ongoing stress and never receive professional help. Barriers may include unrecognized symptoms, lack of education around emotional health, traditional beliefs about masculinity, or attempts to self-manage through substance use or other masking behaviors. Men also often have fewer social outlets for discussing their mental well-being.
When the signs go unseen
Emotional distress in men is frequently minimized as “normal pressure” or just part of life. Symptoms such as chronic tiredness, irritability, agitation, or even physical discomfort may actually signal mental health concerns in men, yet are often dismissed because they don’t resemble the typical image of depression or anxiety. Without clarity, these symptoms can go untreated for years.
The role of awareness
Cultural norms don’t always teach men how to recognize emotional pain. Many believe men’s mental health issues are only tied to extreme trauma, like violence or combat-related PTSD, rather than life changes such as workplace stress, grief, or relationship loss. Those quieter forms of distress are easily overlooked without education and open dialogue.
Masculinity and generational beliefs
Stigma around therapy remains high among older generations of men. Many Baby Boomers and Gen Xers were taught that expressing emotion was a weakness or that seeking help was unnecessary. Men from LGBTQIA+ and BIPOC backgrounds may face additional barriers to support, including historical trauma, marginalization, and deep-rooted mistrust in healthcare systems.
At Northeast Health Services, we honor the intersection of identity and experience. Our men’s health services are grounded in culturally aware, affirming treatment for both cisgender men and gender-diverse individuals. Promoting men’s mental health awareness starts with rethinking what it means to be strong and replacing silence with understanding.
Fewer social safety nets
Men are often less likely to have emotionally intimate friendships. In 1990, 40% of men said they had six to nine close friends; by 2021, that number had dropped to just 15%.² With fewer people to confide in, men may miss the external cues that help signal something is wrong. This lack of reflection from others can make it harder to recognize when support is needed.
What does men’s mental health really mean?
Good mental health isn’t about being happy all the time. It’s about managing emotional ups and downs, recognizing what you’re feeling instead of ignoring it, and knowing when to seek support. Mental well-being is dynamic and shaped by biological, psychological, and social influences. Life changes, physical health challenges, cultural stressors, family expectations, and relationship dynamics all contribute to a person’s mental health status.
Being mentally well might look like managing stress without relying heavily on substances, maintaining a couple of trusted relationships, and having the energy and focus needed for everyday life. For many men, it also includes feeling grounded in their identity and confident in their roles as a parent, partner, professional, or friend.
Signs of mental wellness in men
You feel emotionally balanced most of the time
Mental health in men doesn’t mean avoiding stress altogether. It means not being constantly overwhelmed by it. If anger, sadness, or emotional numbness become frequent or prolonged without a clear reason, it may be time to pause and assess. Recognizing and expressing emotions in healthy ways is a vital part of long-term stability.
Your sleep and appetite patterns are regular
Trouble falling asleep, staying asleep, or experiencing noticeable changes in appetite can be early signs of emotional strain. These shifts are common indicators of underlying issues like depression or anxiety, even when other symptoms feel mild.
You can focus on your responsibilities
Most people occasionally feel buried by obligations. But if day-to-day tasks consistently feel like too much at work, home, or in your relationships. It may signal that you need added support.
You feel socially connected
Loneliness affects men at every stage of life and is linked to a number of physical and mental health problems. Prioritizing small but meaningful interactions like texting a friend or meeting someone for lunch can reduce isolation and help you stay emotionally grounded.
You use healthy coping tools
Some men cope by working nonstop, using alcohol, engaging in impulsive behaviors, or over-relying on food. These habits might seem like typical stress responses, but they can often hide deeper issues. When coping becomes avoidance, it may be time to talk to someone.
Just like physical health, mental health shifts over time. It’s completely normal to ask for help. At Northeast Health Services, our clinicians tailor each care plan to fit your unique life circumstances, identity, environment, and goals.
Common mental health concerns among men
Mental health conditions can affect people of any gender, but mental health in men often presents in unique ways that impact how symptoms are recognized and treated. Some of the most frequently experienced mental health conditions among men include:
- Depression: Often overlooked in men, depression might show up not as sadness, but as irritability, frustration, or emotional shut-down.
- Anxiety disorders: Generalized anxiety, panic attacks, and social anxiety can appear as difficulty relaxing, poor sleep, restlessness, or muscle tension.
- Anger and impulse regulation issues: Although not a clinical diagnosis, recurring anger, impulsivity, or risk-taking can be signs of underlying stress, trauma, or depression.
- PTSD: Common among first responders, veterans, and survivors of trauma, post-traumatic stress disorder in men may involve nightmares, emotional numbness, hypervigilance, or outbursts of anger.
Spotting these issues early and getting tailored support can greatly improve your daily functioning, long-term health, and the quality of your closest relationships.
When support is missing
Mental health symptoms in men don’t always look like what people expect. While sadness and crying are common markers of depression in women, men may experience more irritability, physical tension, withdrawal from loved ones, or a drop in motivation.
Avoiding emotional expression can result in a backlog of unprocessed grief, anxiety, or anger. Over time, this can lead to conflict in personal relationships, difficulty at work, and challenges in parenting or being a supportive partner.
When men’s mental health needs go unmet, the people closest to them, like their partners, children, coworkers, and friends, can also feel the effects. Getting support isn’t just about self-care; it’s also an investment in the people and priorities that matter most in your life.
Therapy designed around your needs
Some men are reluctant to try therapy because the idea of it feels unfamiliar or uncomfortable. Pop culture images of lying on a couch and diving straight into emotional memories can be unappealing. For many men, especially those new to care, that kind of approach doesn’t feel like a good fit.
The good news is that therapy can be very practical. It can help you identify small, actionable steps for managing stress, navigating a difficult relationship, improving sleep, or increasing focus. It can also be a space to explore deeper topics, when and if you feel ready.
At Northeast Health Services, we know there’s no one-size-fits-all approach. We’re here to help you find a path that aligns with your goals and sense of self, on your terms. We accept most major insurance plans and can help you understand your coverage options.
Take the first step toward better mental health
In 2022, men died by suicide at a rate four times higher than women.³ If you or someone you care about is struggling, reaching out before things reach a crisis point can make all the difference. At Northeast Health Services, we provide therapy, psychiatric medication management, and advanced treatment options like NeuroStar® TMS and Spravato®.
With locations throughout the Commonwealth, our multidisciplinary team of therapists and psychiatric providers works with adults from all walks of life. We offer men’s mental health care that is inclusive, affirming, and tailored to your personal experience. Every person we see is treated as an individual, not a diagnosis or a number. We aim to help you feel heard, respected, and supported.
Make the choice to challenge stigma and prioritize your well-being. Take control of your path and help normalize mental health in men by being part of the change. Call Northeast Health Services at 508.794.8711 to learn more about what we offer and how we can help.
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